Ongoing Trust and Persistence

Aloha Dear Ones!

I haven’t been blogging much for many reasons. I have nothing physical to show for that spa retreat dream I’ve been pursuing for now decades. I don’t have momentous adventures to share. Actually, I have had adventures but, for various reasons, they are not appropriate to divulge with the world. My hosts, as with my respected personal training clients, can rely on confidentiality for their privacy. Certain circumstances have also necessitated not disclosing my whereabouts for my well-being and privacy. I am not a “public figure”. I am not even a business trying to reach far and wide for customers. I am also not a vlogger trying to rack up the most subscribers. I have used blogging as a method to reach those whose lives I am meant to touch. Some I am grateful to have been able to inspire by my words or example. For others, it has been a delight to have been able to provide physical assistance as well.

As expressed previously, I had many frustrations with technology. Personally, I can’t keep up with the blink of an eye changing tech in a manner necessary to get my communication out in a pleasing format and reach all those it may be beneficial to reach. For all the above reasons, I probably will continue not posting regularly. However, every once in a while, I am guided to send yet another message. Whether it be for the good of many or possibly to reach just one individual, I am following that call.

I continue to contemplate the idea of my Tropical SpaRetreat from every twist and angle imaginable. Helping others have a positive life transformation was one of the main goals. Perhaps my retreat will actually manifest some year in this reality. Perhaps not. What remains crystal clear is that, in pursuing that lofty aim, I have been helping others make amazing life shifts everywhere my wanderings have taken me. Think the familiar quote from Lord of the Rings, “All who wander are not lost”. Admittedly, there have been many times I have questioned myself and the paths I was on – seemingly way off track for where I thought I’d be. Yet, I was not, and am not, lost. Miracles and synchronicities are my daily fare. They serve as signs, winks from Heaven, indicating I am exactly in the right place at the right time on my particular path. Even if I am not serving in the manner I anticipated by now, my service and dedication to elevating the planet is in no way diminished.

How about your life? Are you right now where you imagined you would be? Do you ever have doubts about the choices you’ve made and turns you have taken at those forks in the road? I’m guessing most of you, to some degree, are in a very different place than you imagined. Some will see that as a blessing while others are going, “What the ____?!” Now, back up a bit in your life and look real hard. I suspect, if you allow yourself to get past any guilt or self-judgement, you will see abundant synchronicities too – your own personal “winks from Heaven” confirming you are on the right path for you! But wait, I’ve got a little secret to share…. Yes, I know there are a few who have “gotten” this already but perhaps a reminder wouldn’t hurt. There is NO ONE Right Path! As the saying goes, “All roads lead to Rome”. Well, all paths take us Home! Now that doesn’t necessarily mean we should throw all care to the wind – unless that is your preferred style. There are definitely paths that are more pleasant than others. And yes, we definitely have the power to influence them. Fate or destiny are not the be all end all in this lifetime…unless you want them to be 😉 Perhaps a review might be a good idea for you at this time. What manifestations in your life are joyfully serving you? What things in life are painfully serving you? “What?” you say. “Pain does not serve me!” Yeah, it kinda does but that would possibly require volumes to even begin convincing you of such. Rather than dwell there, consider what one action you might take today to shift your path in a direction that is more pleasing to you. Oh, I can already hear some peoples’ minds screaming out about selfishness. Actually, selfishness is part of a healthy way of being. It has been part of my higher purpose to help others understand this. The majority of us were indoctrinated with the idea that selfishness is evil. One of the most basic examples of why it is the opposite of evil, and very necessary, is the airplane admonition. Put your oxygen mask on before helping others! This only makes sense. You can be of the most benefit to others the more whole and complete you are yourself. If your cup is empty, you have nothing to share. Yet, if your cup overfloweth……
The more we experience ourselves as whole and complete, the more we can be of bright service to others! Maybe it would help if we give selfishness a new name due to the stigma attached to that word. How about self-fullness? Self-kindness? I am not a prolific wordsmith so, perhaps, you can come up with the perfect expression that resonates with you – then embody it!

Again, I urge you to find at least one way of nurturing yourself which will automatically assist you in shifting your life journey in a more pleasant direction for you.

One of the ways I am doing this is reaching out to you. It may be time for me to embark on a new adventure. Anyone who has been reading my posts knows my intention is to assist some place on or within close proximity to a tropical beach. I have lived, since 2009, by trade or exchange - my accommodations and such in exchange for some kind of service. The exact arrangement is as varied as the folks I have served in various parts of the world. If you have any leads for me, I’d greatly appreciate them. You can email me here 🙏
Possible Assistance Situations
(Generally looking for a month or longer):
House-sitter
Pet-sitter
Property Caretaker
Help with babies/small children
Travel Companion (obviously warm climates)
Help with wellness related business or retreat center
Hospitality – small hotel or rentals
A respectful situation with Dolphins
Deck hand (again warm climates and no fishing)

For some smiles and warm fuzzies, enjoy these pics of some FurBabies I’ve cared for….

Due to my travels, I am not in a position to sell much these days. If

you’d like to support me with your retail therapy, please consider purchasing from my daughter’s Poshmark store. Many of my Shell Crafts along with other items are there and she uses the proceeds to assist me on my life adventure as well. Words cannot adequately express my gratitude for her support as well as all of yours!

Circling back again to my title…My sojourn has definitely been one of ongoing trust and persistence. I trust the Universe to guide me to where I should be for the highest and best good of myself and all. Following that path, I trust I will be provided for abundantly – having all the tools I need to live vibrantly and joyfully along the way. In spite of outward appearances indicating I’ve made no progress for decades on my anticipated journey so far, I persist in the direction I am intuitively guided. Yes, I have my doubts here and there. Yes, I get discouraged sometimes. Yes, I get downright frustrated and, occasionally, even depressed by the external evidence. Some of the characteristics of being human for sure! Yet I have managed to persist on this multi-faceted, exciting trip on Planet Earth trusting in a Higher Power that I AM part of. I am going the distance as long as it is appropriate. Gratitude is also bigtime fuel for my ongoing fire. As part of my “job” is to help you, I surround you with radiant love light and ongoing energetic support in all you are inspired to do and be. Blessings all around…..

Pura Vida

Magic Always Comes With A Price

Once upon a time a little, seemingly average, girl dreamed of being a princess. Immediately one would think, “That’s pretty normal. Lots of little girls dream of being princesses.” Heck, Disney made sure of that too. Around 6 years of age, she donned her mother’s gorgeous cerulean blue satin dress and the jeweled golden crown she’d fashioned herself. It was Halloween and one of the last times she’d be allowed to be a princess for many years to come. Externally, that is, because she was actually…..Abby Normal. Something in her deepest memories always glowed, albeit at times faintly, a knowing of magic – all kinds of magic! One of her NOW choices is to live that magic as much as possible here on Planet Earth.
But more about that later.

There is a positive reason, or magic if you will, swirling around every
happening. When I was in Florida, a few months back, I could have easily stayed months longer. I had a beautiful, comfortable place to stay. I loved the balmy weather, tropical plants and critters all around. Yet something was telling me, in no uncertain terms, it was time to move on. No why, just go! Sometime later, I would come to understand why. The Universe was sparing me incredible heartbreak. One of the main purposes for me being in Florida is to be on the beach experiencing as many breathtaking sunrises and sunsets as possible. The deep level of communing with nature for me under those circumstances is hard to explain in human language. Alas, a devastating Red Tide began almost immediately after my departure. Its epic destruction and duration continue to this very day. I could not have been able to bear the sight of so many of my friends, dead on the beach and floating lifeless in the water. I would not have been able to breath or tolerate the stinging in my eyes there either. Sometimes the magic is that we are whisked away – protected from situations not preferred. The Universe knows I can help others better when I dwell in joy!

Here is one of the countless ways Joy has blessed me. After mentioning how I used to give greeting cards in my previous post, a former recipient of such greetings gifted me with a several. And not just any cards, but ones that featured her exquisite fine art and photography. You too can enjoy them via Kathyjonokuchi.com Thank You Dear Kathy! You have brought ongoing joy to me since the time we met, all those years ago, and bring immeasurable joy to the world!

Magic Always Comes With A Price – it is always the effect of something aka the price. I previously touched on that with nothing being “free” in Who is this blog for? Each day I look for, or create, the magic in the place where I am as I move closer to another place I’d like to be. I find something to feel joy about while fulfilling my purpose in whatever place I currently am. And, I continue taking baby steps to manifesting another reality. To that end, I again put out my request for leads and information. If you have any ideas or connections to someone in a tropical beach area with warm turquoise waters that needs assistance, please let me know. It could be house-sitting, childcare assistance, travel companion, deck hand, or other mutually beneficial work exchange situation. Kindly contact me to share thoughts
or get more details on help I can provide.

What is the price of everyday magic?
Here is a short beginning to the Neverending Story:
* Ongoing decisions to see the wonder right where you are
* Lighten up – have more fun
* Willingness to be happy over right
* Don’t sweat the small stuff (and it’s all small stuff)
* Imagine/see the world as you blissfully wish it to be
* Recognizing you are on this stage called life and can determine your individual performance
* Shining your light to others constantly making this world a brighter place
* Commitment to live happily ever after

                                                                 Bibbidi Bobbidi Boo!

Warm Holidays

One of the memorable gifts I am infinitely grateful for this season is warmth! 80 some degree days? Oh yeah! It makes such a tremendous difference in my life when I am in a climate that supports and revitalizes me. At the same time, it thrills me to hear about others enjoying their snowy and more “winter appropriate” weather. Different strokes for different folks or we’d all be crowded in the exact same place at the same time. I wish for everyone to have the lives of their brightest desires as the energy of their joy emanates around the planet.

You may recall from my post Hola and Adios, August found me in Mexico as a Travel Companion. I anticipated that trip to extend to Mexico, Belize, Panama and Costa Rica for weeks, possibly even months. Just a day prior to departure for that trip, a friend in Florida called requesting my assistance with house/pet-sitting. Appreciative I was asked, I had to turn the opportunity down having already made the Travel Companion commitment. When things started going south in Mexico, pun intended, I emailed to see if there was still a need in Florida. The response was affirmative. Thankfully, the gentleman I was accompanying in Mexico kept his agreement of flying me back to my airport of origin - in this case LAX. Spent a couple days embracing family, unpacking and repacking for the next adventure. 42 hours after departure from California, I arrived at my Florida destination (huge thanks, in part, to my generous car angels – my Parents!)

With my furry charge, I enjoyed numerous walks in nature. Saw snakes, bunnies, squirrels, hawks, turtles, alligators……many of them pretty up close and personal. An ever-changing canvas, the sky always presented clouds in infinite expressions that brought me delight. Greenery everywhere was punctuated by varieties of colorful flowers, fruit and trees draped in enchanting Spanish Moss.

In Florida, I was invited to teach classes at Beyond Wishes, a wellness and rejuvenation oasis right near my beach in Nokomis. Abby Smiley Krause, co-owner of the center with her artist husband Tom Krause, is an upbeat vivacious fairy-like being with an infectious smile. It was an honor and joy to accept. Moving Meditation delivered an eclectic blend of yoga, Pilates, Alexander, Feldenkrais and my own intuitive flair. Like a chameleon, this class morphed into whatever was needed for my unique students present each day. If you are ever in the area, treat yourself to a visit to Beyond Wishes. Get pampered with one of their numerous offerings….a facial, reiki treatment, massage or a breath enhancing experience in the salt bed.  At the very least, browse their collection of wellness care products….skin care, essential oils, candles, jewelry, books and more. Enjoy the marine life art of Tom Krause….of course the dolphin and turtle ones are my favs.

I’ve wanted to attend Michelle Walling and Greg Prescott’s In5d conference for the past 5 years or so. Either I wasn’t in the right physical location or I didn’t have the money to attend. This year I was in the “right” place. While I still didn’t have the money, I had a credit card and trusted this was the appropriate choice. It was a pleasure finally meeting and hugging them in person as all previous communication had been electronic. Through a series of synchronistic signs, I also made a powerful connection with  PamelaAaralyn. This Spiritual Alchemist began seeing auras, energy and visions at the age of 5. Miraculously, I ended up on a pontoon boat day trip with her and a few other bright people on the gorgeous nearby intercoastal waterway. After a lovely lunch at Dry Dock, I experienced an insightful private reading with Pamela onboard the boat in that idyllic setting…..

Due to life happening as it does, I am not able to keep up with my networking or stay aware of all the opportunities/happenings around me. I simply trust I will meet those I am “supposed” to connect with and get whatever info is appropriate for me. Such clearly happens frequently for me. Of note was a fb friend posting about his company, Dragonfly Expeditions. I am guessing I originally connected with Charles in my previous research for the Bahamas. Knowing he is also affiliated with other travel enterprises, Tropic Moon Media, Margaritaville Adventures and Windjammer Sailing Adventures, I was guided to contact him to see if there was any way we might be able to benefit each other in the future. He responded quickly to my message saying they could always use “guides” and to call him after Thanksgiving. Calling the day after, I was amazed that he actually answered the phone. Figuring I had nothing to lose, I shared with him my quest for a tropical place that I “see” in my dreams and visions – a place I am not even sure if exists on this planet (Baring My Soul and Planting a Dream). Continuing, I told him any endeavor that brings me closer in my search, and that also honors all involved, interests me which is why I contacted him. Instead of blowing my story off, Charles asked me for details of this place. A well-traveled man himself, he started coming up with a few location possibilities.  Long story short, my arriving in Coral Gables to meet with him was full of wild synchronicities….perhaps a story for another day if it ends up going further. Not only did my adventure include meeting him at the Biltmore Hotel, I was invited to participate in a tour he was giving that day on Key Biscayne. I experienced so many incredible sights and learnings in a few short hours as Charles is somewhat of a charming walking encyclopedia.

I was privileged to have opportunities to attend numerous Holiday Celebrations. Again, thanks flowing to all who helped facilitate... The spirit of peace and joy warmed my heart and body this season helping to prepare for a bright New Year!

My commission over, the journey continues…….Thanks for accompanying me!!


P.S. Here are a couple funnies I shared on fb to provide a smile or two: